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Three Three Three Rule

Bringing home a newly adopted pet is exciting, but it can also be overwhelming—for both you and your new companion. The 3-3-3 Rule helps set realistic expectations for your pet's adjustment and ensures a smooth transition into their forever home. This guide will walk you through the critical first three days, three weeks, and three months of your pet's journey.
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The First 3 Days: Decompression

Your new pet has just experienced a significant life change. They may feel overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted. This period is all about providing them with a calm and safe environment.

  • Give them space to explore their new home at their own pace.
  • Set up a designated area with food, water, and a comfortable bed.
  • Keep interactions gentle and avoid overwhelming them with too many visitors.
  • Let them rest—many newly adopted pets sleep a lot during this phase.

The First 3 Weeks: Establishing Routine & Training

By now, your pet is starting to feel more comfortable. This is the perfect time to introduce a structured routine.

  • Stick to consistent feeding, walking, and bedtime schedules.
  • Start basic training, including house rules and simple commands.
  • Encourage socialization but go at your pet's comfort level.
  • Begin reinforcing positive behaviors with treats and praise.

The First 3 Months: Building Trust & Bonding

After three months, your pet should feel more settled, and a strong bond will start to form.

  • Your pet will fully understand your household routine.
  • They will feel more comfortable expressing their personality.
  • Trust is developing—expect more affection and engagement.
  • Continue reinforcing training, socialization, and positive reinforcement.

Patience & Understanding

Every pet is different, and some may take longer to adjust than others. The key is patience, consistency, and love. By following the 3-3-3 Rule, you'll help ensure your new furry family member feels safe, secure, and truly at home.

Adoption is a journey, not a destination. Give your pet time, and they'll reward you with a lifetime of love.

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